
Summary
Hospitality, faithfulness, and imitating what is good.
by Dr. David Silver1 min read
Read the Summaryby Dr. David Silver1 min read
3 John is an epistle written by the Apostle John in the 90’s A.D. Along with 2 John, this book is in a standard ancient letter format. 3 John is the shortest book in the NT. John addressed the letter to Gaius, a leader of a local church he likely helped establish. He also called out Diotrephes, who did not accept John and mistreated other believers. Lastly, he spoke well about Demetrius, who was a good example to all. This book is the only one in the NT that does not mention Christ by name.
Gaius had good spiritual health, and John wished him good physical health also. Gaius was faithful and continued to walk in the truth (verse 3). This gave John great joy (verse 4). Gaius showed hospitality and love to the missionaries who had gone out to correct false teachers (verses 5-8).
Diotrephes, who was a church leader, loved to be first. He wanted nothing to do with John (verse 9). He gossiped maliciously about him, refused to accept the missionaries, and excommunicated those who wanted to help them (verse 10). John planned on confronting him when he visited.
Demetrius was well spoken of by everyone, including John, and the truth itself (verse 12). It is obvious from the context that John is hinting that Diotrephes is acting in an evil way, and Demetrius does what is good. John’s testimony is true. John wanted to visit soon to speak with Gaius and to deal with the problems. He closed the letter with a greeting.
Structure
Verses 1–8
John’s joy that Gaius walks in the truth, and praise for the hospitality he shows travelling workers he has never met — we ought to support such people.
Verses 9–10
A church leader who loves to be first, refuses to welcome the brothers, spreads malicious talk, and puts out those who try to help.
Verses 11–12
Do not imitate what is evil but what is good; Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone, and by the truth itself.
Verses 13–14
John hopes to come soon and talk face to face; peace to you, and greet the friends by name.
Key Themes
01
Supporting those who go out for the sake of the Name.
02
John’s greatest joy is hearing that his children do it.
03
Diotrephes loves to be first, and it damages everyone around him.
04
Three men are set side by side, and you are told which to copy.
05
Demetrius is commended by everyone and by the truth itself.
The Challenge We Face
This is the only book in the New Testament that never names Christ, and yet it is written entirely about Him: the workers go out for the sake of the Name, and Gaius supports them so that he may be a fellow worker in the truth.
The contrast between a man who loves to be first and a man everyone speaks well of is the contrast Jesus drew between greatness in the world and greatness in His kingdom.
Apply Scripture

Supporting someone else’s work makes you a partner in it.
Loving to be first will spoil any ministry.
Imitate what is good; it is a choice about who you watch.
Faithfulness in small, unseen hospitality is worth a letter from an apostle.
Nothing gives a mentor greater joy than seeing people walk in the truth.

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